I’ll go straight to the point.
I’m afraid an ex-friend of both my partner and I is trying to cast something on us.
The thing is though, she’s a witch, she knows our full names, natal birth chart, has “seen us” while astral projecting, and all that stuff. And her partner -also a witch- knows about these things too.
We were friends for years, even had her as a roommate, but things wen’t horribly wrong with her, to the point we had to kick her out of our home. She was being disrespectful to both our sacred place and to ourselves, and would often lie to us even though the lies were too obvious to believe.
I was planning on simply banishing her (and her partner), cut cords, warding our home and shielding ourselves, but I still don’t know if that would be enough given how much information they both have about us, especially about myself.
She always said her magick was always to open paths and would never create jinxes or hoaxes, but honestly, I don’t really think I can believe that anymore.
Just asking for advice, in case there’s anything else I should consider.
Thank you so much for your time 
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If you find something around the home that don’t belong, don’t touch it but do get rid of it.
A leaf blower would be perfect for that if it’s small enough to move that way. A broom otherwise.
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Thank you :]
I’ll definitely keep this in mind.
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Beyond what you’ve already done and are planning to do - and beyond identifying anything that’s out of place that needs removing (which might include hidden writing/sigils.) I would also avoid doing any astral projection for a while. Maybe even taking measures to protect your body while you sleep.
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Terrifying Tuesday Ulv,
Wow, not a good thing to have going on. I would suggest first and foremost to make sure you and your home/surroundings are grounded first, shielded and blessed. So much of the Craft is based on intent. Since you are unsure about the strength of her magick, that will already leave you susceptible to problems/issues, because of the doubt. Before you even go there, such as counter-attacking; I would state that you seriously and absolutely ground you and yours. Bless yourself and surroundings daily. Say affirmation chants for yourself to strengthen your own spirit.
This is my favorite:
- I am Vital
- I am Strong
- I am Unique
- I Belong!!
Burn sage and go room to room and bless, use bells for the noise (to scare away) of the unwanted energies from room to room. Take any smudge, or incense, candles, anything for purification, and moving room to room (best when you are alone or with another believer to help) chanting:
- Goddess of the Earth, make a dome
- Pure is my Heart, clean is my home
The cleanliness part is referring to cleansing of negative energy.
You can make a salt jar spell with these easy ingredients—natural salt (not Morton’s, they have a sweetener [dextrose] in it-check labels), Himalayan salt is usually pure/natural. I add black pepper for protection and courage, dried garlic (powdered even) for strong protection and warding of negativity (think dracula deterrent).
Cast your circle, or set your intent, for how you practice your craft, then as you add the ingredients chant:
- any dark or evil force,
- may now return to its source.
- balanced now in harmony
- I move forward; whole and free
Keep this where you will see often daily. I keep mine on my altar which is on my dresser at eye level when I am in bed. Daily when you see it and throughout the day, pick up your jar and repeat the above mantra and as you grip your jar, repeat with all your might, mind and power.
Just start with this and keep yourself protected. You should start to feel a little more comfortable within a few days.
Then take it from there. I hope this helps you out!!
Lady Gene 
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Thank you!
Yeah, I thought about avoiding that too at least for a while. They had the tendency of telling me my astral self was doing specific things to and with them while I wasn’t even considering it at all. Like me “attacking entities” while I was just chilling and trying to figure out my path since I’m not that great at astral projecting. It didn’t make sense to be great at doing things there while I objectively know I’m not that good at it (astral - ly speaking).
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Ah! Thank you so much for your time and quite detailed response!
I will put this in practice, starting tonight.
I did consider an amulet to protect myself and my loved one and carrying that around, but I actually never thought of a salt jar for our home -and therefore, us- once cleansed and warded. That’s definitely a must now. Thank you so very much!
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