The New Adventures of an Old Witch

Hello, I’m Violet and I am returning to the witchy path after many years. It was all very important to me in my teens and early 20s but I sort of fell away from it and mostly lived as a jaded atheist for the past almost two decades. I am still nontheist, but started reading on Buddhism and paganism again a few years ago during a depressive period and remembering how helpful I found spirituality before.

I would consider myself a kitchen witch, and am actively working on learning my own associations with herbs, vegetables, and flowers, and love tending my small kitchen garden. I worked as a pastry chef for years and currently work freelance on recipe development and food photography, and hope to make a seasonal kitchen witch cooking zine starting this autumn. (I struggle with art that isn’t made of food and would be very open to a collab if anyone is interested.) I also love tea and often do little meditation rituals with it.

I have been working on sort of self-improvement projects by the moons, setting intentions on the new moon and in accordance with what each full moon ‘means’ and have really been enjoying it. Keeping with the kitchen witch theme, I have been making little spell bowls with all the dried herbs and other ingredients I have on hand, and lighting a chime candle in a cast iron tea cup, then burying the herbs and beeswax in my garden. I’ve never been big on ‘spells’ but I do love the physical act of intention setting like this, and would like to make my cooking more intentional and 'crafty, too. My project for the upcoming Strawberry Moon is to start working on the zine and feel less abject terror at getting my thoughts out in a creative way.

I used to spend a lot of my time on forums and small blogs and have been trying to get back into that sort of small web (and zine) vibe, too, having been fully burned out on social media and what the internet has become, so I would LOVE to hear about anything fun you’ve found on the web lately. I have a very small blog I’ve been updating on the new and full moons just to get myself back into the habit of sharing for fun instead of engagement.

I definitely miss the pagan book collection I finally gave up surprisingly recently after not opening them for years, and would also love to hear about your favorite books. I tended to me more into spirituality and lifestyle (crafting home altars, green and hedge witchcraft) books rather than lists of spells and correspondences, but also I haven’t shopped for pagan books since about 2007 and have no idea what’s considered popular now. Any names to seek out or avoid would be helpful.

Anyway. Hi!

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Welcome to the Forum!

There’s a thread here with some recommendations, and book sources: Book Discussions

Terrific Tuesday Violet,

Not to worry, many of us are returning to the Craft after “life” distracted us in our youth. So, we completely understand!!!

Kitchen Witch, I love it!! Moon, great. I only started with moon oblations, being here and from Vegas, I am a solar witch. Craft, ezines…sounds like a lot of fun!!

Isn’t that the way it works? You hold on to something for “some day” and finally get rid of it (in my case, sometimes decades of holding it) to find out, within a year or so, that yup you needed it.

Well, I look at it this way (this happened to me recently too)…that stuff was old, not old enough to be an antique, and my people would probably not hold on to it anyway, and there is new stuff anyway, you might like it better. That is how I deal with “accidentally” getting rid of stuff too soon (even though it’s been over 10 years) [note: for Imbolc and Spring Cleaning I unloaded lots, of stuff, I even had some make up boxes that I still rotated, 2 of 'em, that were older than my marriage, more than 30 years]
Here’s a list of the books that I always suggest for newbies, or in this case, a “prodigal” child.:upside_down_face:

Wicca: A Guide for the Solitary Practitioner by Scott Cunningham**a very easy read.

Buckland’s Complete Book of Witchcraft (Affectionately called Buckland’s Big Blue) by Raymond Buckland**this is almost like a workbook, with little exercises at the end of each chapter. This book is a little more in-depth than Scotts book and explains a little about the different Wiccan “denominations” if you will.

A Witches Bible: The Complete Witches’ Handbook by Janet and Stewart Farrar** this is very ritualistic and is Gardnerian Wicca. This explains in-depth the rituals of Wicca.

These are good starting points for books. Let me know if you have any other questions. If you are interested in tarot I have started a discussion group, called Tarot Talks June 2026 for this month. Please join us!!!

Welcome to the pack :wolf: and take a good look around, much to see and many different paths and styles here; I am sure you will find people to connect with.:blush:

Lady Gene :bow_and_arrow:

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welcome to the coven! may the stars guide you on your pagan journey. I have a little pagan group chat on this website… if you would like i could add you… ive been looking for some new more online people to become part of the group.:blush:

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That would be awesome, thanks!

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ive just sent an invite! :smiley:

Welcome Violet!

Thanks for sharing your story, I had fun reading it. I think we can all relate to having ups and downs in our life and practice.

I can relate a little too much right now on your sentiments on the state of the internet and social media. I hadn’t been on any kind of social media for years until I made the mistake of getting involved with it again a couple weeks ago. I’ve never seen it this bad - but I assure you that this forum is the ultimate “resting place” away from alot of the madness. (I’m never going back again I swear it to the gods lol…)

I see you’ve got a lot of good book suggestions to start!

Oh and I’m a Buddhist Polytheist haha! Hearing you’d been reading about Buddhism made me laugh. They work together remarkably well. xD

Cheers. :lotus:

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