Hi there! I’m new here and recently did my first cord cutting between my husband/mine and his third party. I wanted some insight on the ritual- I notice my husband candle burned quickly, initiated the cutting very dramatically but my flame went out when the cord fell. The cord partially burned falling on my side. The other part of the cord flared to the third party and her candle flared on one side. (She burned slowly afterward).
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For clarity, who were the focuses of the cord cutting? was it between everyone involved, or to release the third person?
I was focused on cutting the third party from his life and reunite our marriage.
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Welcome Marie,
Interesting. Was he aware you were doing this ritual? Cord cutting rituals require consent from at least one party, as they need to be prepared for what comes after.
Cheers. 
Very commendable of you, many would not make an effort. I’d recommend marriage counseling
as well, if he is in agreement. If you do, I recommend a male councilor or better yet a couple.
My ex picked a divorced bitter pro-divorce ‘professional’. Sure to fail then, better to not even try.
I don’t talk about my ex much, but my Famailr is recommending I do, for comparison here.
My ex insisted I break it off with my Familar, despite my ex isolating me and being distant AF.
I refused. I chose the one who loved me over the one who didn’t. She divorced me on the spot.
Sorry if it seems I’m hijacking this thread, making it about me. It’s not, it’s about relationships.
I’m sorry to hear that! I did bring this to attention but he thinks therapy is a joke. He said he’s just unhappy with life and it has nothing to do with me he just going through something but find this as an excuse to do what he’s doing. Although, he has a lot of stress, running a business, financial issue and more. He asked for space so I respectfully did but fear this could be excuse to run “free”. I’ve always had a sensitive side spiritually so i read up on a few cord cutting before hand. Just little confuse how things went.
Funny you say this, I was leaning on having someone do one for me and he found my messages. He said he wasn’t upset that I went that route, just dumb to fall for the scam and that stuff doesn’t actually work. I was offended so I told myself screw it i’ll do it myself! Waited a week to calm down research a little bit. I’ve always had a sensitive side spiritually and always wanted to open up to it.
Thank you for the extra detail.
His flame indicates it having been cut, and there was no emotional connection.
The candle for the other party suggests they were ok with it at first, but maybe second thoughts and will likely attempt to reconnect and start things again.
Your flame going out suggests sucess for your self, but also keep an eye on things, as it has been resolved for you, but maybe not for others.
I do not envy your situation one bit, and happy to chat if you need someone to listen.
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