Hello! I have a serious dilemma and need to ask you more experienced witches.
My daughter has an ex boyfriend who never goes away, and constantly tries to ruin her life any which way he can. (She even had a restraining order on him but as you may know means very little). Even five years later,This dude (evil demon) puts her in a state of despair and self doubt especially when she continues to try to better herself but cannot seem to find her inner power. I have been looking for a very strong banishing spell to rid him from her life forever. I am not looking to harm him of course but want him gone permanently. Thank you in advanced for all and any suggestions you may have”
Elena, I am so sorry to hear about this truly horrible situation. Unfortunately I can empathise. I was the subject of a stalking campaign for three years and it pushed me to the brink of a mental health crisis. This was compounded by friends, family and the police down playing everything. The nights of lost sleep, the constant hyper attentiveness, the energy spent on safety precautions and the sense that no one really gets what this person is trying to do, it takes its toll.
The reason why I am telling you this is because I tried many spells, but each spell was followed by omens, ominous card readings and vivid warning dreams. Everything was telling me to get out, get away, stop fighting and start running. I firmly believe that whatever magical energy I was petitioning was replying to me but not in the way I wanted. I was in danger and the answer was not a spell, it was to leave the situation. My spells weren’t letting me down, they were cutting to the chase and trying to get me out of the situation I was trying but failing to control.
I sincerely hope that your situation is not dangerous and I wish that the law could actually protect us and our daughters properly, but too often it lets us down. If your intuition, your dreams, your readings are warnings, perhaps you need more protection than a spell.
I wish you and your daughter all my positive energy to find a happy solution away from this person’s obsessive spite. xxx
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Awe thanks for your reply. I myself had a similar situation when I was younger from someone whom I was not in a relationship with. My family too down played it. I, fortunately am tougher than nails and can become like a wild caged animal who will retaliate which is how I put an end to the stalking. ( it took me a while though).
My daughter left this relationship almost 5 years ago already, but he keeps intruding on her life, and every time he does causes her anguish. This what I am trying to stop. I need him to move on and stop harassing her once and for all. I wish you the very best and that you have found your inner strength and not ever let anyone do that to you again.
You have to do it with love and not hate. Perfect love. The trick is to ask the Goddess to find him someone else or give him something else in his live to lose interest in your daughter. For example, I had a woman who was infatuated in me, but I was not interested. She would show up at my job and college. I made it clear, I was not interested in a relationship at the moment, because my education was more important and she wanted me at her side all the time. It didn’t work. I ask my Lord and Lady to help me and they gave me the answer. I had not heard from her in a while, it was a relief. I found out later that her father had a job offer in another state and they had to move clean across the state. It took them a while to get settled in, but by that time, she had another love interest at the college she was at in that state. There was no goodbye, she never said anything else to me on social media, after all that. She had pictures of her holding another guy on social media. I had deleted her off my social media, but I had a friend that knew her and introduced us in the first place. Long story, but there is no need for bad karma in your life or your daughters. I don’t believe you know the whole story in their relationship, my son lies to me all the time about his social life. That being said, be on the safe side and ask your Gods to in perfect love and trust, get him distracted by something or someone else. Five years later is a long time for a guy to be obsessed. Maybe a professional in mental health needs to be involved. I experienced that with a woman once and I asked my Lord and Lady to help me. She had a job offer in another state, making more money than she ever dreamed. She took it and I never heard from her again. Be careful, when it comes to dealing with someone else’s life. Powers of three and all. Attacking it not always the answer. Believe me, I wanted to, since she came to my job and my college looking for me and it is worse, when it is your child. If you do any kind of divination, ask that like pendulum or tarot cards for an answer. Dealing with relstionship is a sticky issue, when it come to asking people for help, because the one you are asking does not know both sides of the story. Most experienced people will usually not help you. There are plenty of books out there that will give you answers and the internet. Unless he is under a spell himself. He is unhappy with his life to keep on harassing your daughter and the best way is to make his life better in other ways, like a better job, a new girlfriend, coming into money. One spell I know is, take something small he owns, let her write on a piece of with red ink…go away, wrap that small thing in the paper, put it to her mouth and say, I say to you in perfect love and perfect trust, go away. You can say in the name of a god or goddess. Address that letter to somewhere far away and mail it somewhere you know, if that is possible. Nowhere to harm him either, bad karma and all. Meanwhile, if you know something that he is afraid of, like an animal, let that animal be your daughter guardian and make it fearce or many. OR just put on that paper “go away and forget me”. There are many way to get someone out of your life that does not have to be negative and there are things you can do that is bad, but you have to find them yourself. I know and faced the karma because of it.
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Thank you Whitecrow for your story and your advice. I do not wish him harm at all. I have always believed in kharma so I know I need to be careful. It saddens me actually that he is the way he is. I know he cannot find happiness in his life or within himself. I have tried many times to help him as did my daughter despite his abusive behavior. He has literally tried to break her physically and especially spiritually. My daughter has since grown tremendously in her strengths but he keeps trying to disrupt her life and tries to find ways to destroy her or any happiness she finds. He is trying to be a poltergeist. I need to intervene and help rid him from her life. I feel strongly that it is my job as her mom to do all I can and that the universe and Gods will understand.
Cord Cutting, protection. 
Love & Light 
I’ve been dealing with this since 2012. My daughter is in an on and off abusive relationship. I’ve tried every spell known to man. I am at a loss of what to do. This man is also breaking the law (literally) & I’ve reported him to police. Nothing ever happens to him. He needs to be GONE. Of course I believe in karma. Him going to prison for life or moving to Africa is fine. He just needs to GO. He is abusive in every way you can imagine. Sexually, physically, emotionally and financially. HELP. My daughter will go days without contacting me because she is AFRAID to use her phone. It is RIDICULOUS
Everything need to be resolved by the path of love and light is what I follow. You get involved in cursing and Willing bad about this person You are creating more chords with this person and more energetic short circuits will keep on troubling your life.
Check with the Tarot cards etc what is the true situation and meditate to get the guidance from angels and spirit guides
Do violet flame meditation And send the wallet flame healing To the entire situation and the people involved and release all negative Things The life in Divine violet flame
Practice forgiveness. Forgive yourself and every person who is troubling you keep doing I forgive I forgive I forgive from the bottom of your heart this work 100% and the person vanishes from your life. Forgiveness acts as a pair of Ceasars, cuts all the cords of Revenge and low vibrational energy between you and this person and then nothing can keep of you together.
Practice daily meditation for protection of yourself and everyone involved. Angel Michael has survived me from very toxic situation and also Mahakali Maa.
Perform strong banishing rituals for clearing negative energy and their negative manifestations
Cord cutting is ultimate tool of clearing all negative energies from your life so do this with the person who is the harming you or any other person
Keep creating new reality because old reality will vanish.. it might take some time based on the negative energy involved and their intensity but violet flame really works only for your highest good and it works with Angels and very high vibrational being so outcome is only the outcome which is for highest good of everyone involved
This is applicable for every negative removal in any individuals life. If you keep giving more of your energy To the present situation it will keep on increasing In your life so Focus on creating new reality Along with your own protection and banishing rituals
Blessings 
Love & Light
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Greetings!
You have every right to want to protect your daughter, but remember that this is her path of growth too. If you wish to truly help her, she needs to be on the same page. It sounds like she might be, but I don’t want to make assumptions based on your post.
The point is, banishing someone from her life, while with good intent, can be enough to accrue negative karma if it’s not with her consent. Also, magick when performed together is twice as powerful than when done alone. And magick combined with decisive action is even more powerful still.
And while “love and light” is a wonderful way to live, it’s not always the right path for everyone. There is strength and positive lessons to be learned from the dark, if it’s for a good cause and personal growth. I get the impression she needs to find her inner strength. Your daughter needs to figure out her path.
Sorry, I just feel I need a little more context. If more insight is needed, I’m happy to help. I’m willing to give more specific recommendations once I know she’s on the same page.
Cheers.
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