Toxic mom.. What to do

Hi

By the way the situation is much more under control since last 4 years because of physical distance

All the characters present Of toxic person And troubled me a lot Physical mental social emotional interference in my life and so on so on so on

Currently persisting problems are she manipulates my father and trouble they may lot and creates problem in my time with my father and she is gatekeeping all the Family contacts I don’t have the relatives contact

I am meditating creating in a peace but it affected on my family life and social life these are aspects here to be resolved, I have to live with lot of restrictions. And being a good girl I made sure that nobody in the society should know about it so I didn’t talk with anybody and I didn’t share these things with any of my relatives and I feel I deserve happiness and happy family and she is the only obstacle blocking all these so can’t we really do anything about it

Banishing and CORD cutting is done that’s the reason the physical separation and lots of interference reduced from my life. And violet flame meditation help me tremendously.

And I am a love fairy. I don’t do any troubles to another so what to do it is not a doll expected that she would ever improve she is the worst negative energy and also give the to my father

Any suggestions from community would be welcome and thank you in advance I have suffered a lot for so many years I am sure now my time is coming

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Merry Monday CuteLittleWitch,

I read your post some days ago and I see noone has responded. I am thinking because this is a touchy subject and people may be fearful of even using a “10-foot pole”, but I’ll jump in. To start, I feel for you greatly, because I have had a very similar situation with my “extremely” toxic mother. Just to keep it short, beat almost daily for being a half-breed, called mongoloid, (I’m in Mensa, and the 1% club, for those who know, you know)…..I could go on for days…but. What I had to finally do was cut ALL ties. I have spoken to her a few times since 2001 (because my accident put me in a coma and I almost died, so I called—MISTAKE!!) So, I just had to go “no more!” Although, I cannot get over the trauma, I thought I was, but it is so much a part of who I am, I do not think my mind will ever escape it. Sometimes, I write down how hurtful I feel and her meanness towards me and keep it in an envelope (it’s getting thicker) to help get the anger out. I won’t ever send it. I have NO social media so that she cannot find me easily. I have not done any spells, because I know she will not change, the memories will not change, my feelings of hating her will not change….so, I just have to learn to go on with my life. Sorry, an horrible example, but, like a rape victim has to move on, so do I.

So, to sum it up……You need to LET GO OF HER, just like that, a hot potatoe.:potato:

I know this is hard, but like ripping off a band-aid, the quicker the better.

Regretfully, because I know how it feels, Lady Gene :crystal_ball: :magic_wand: