Toxic mom.. What to do

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Hi

By the way the situation is much more under control since last 4 years because of physical distance

All the characters present Of toxic person And troubled me a lot Physical mental social emotional interference in my life and so on so on so on

Currently persisting problems are she manipulates my father and trouble they may lot and creates problem in my time with my father and she is gatekeeping all the Family contacts I don’t have the relatives contact

I am meditating creating in a peace but it affected on my family life and social life these are aspects here to be resolved, I have to live with lot of restrictions. And being a good girl I made sure that nobody in the society should know about it so I didn’t talk with anybody and I didn’t share these things with any of my relatives and I feel I deserve happiness and happy family and she is the only obstacle blocking all these so can’t we really do anything about it

Banishing and CORD cutting is done that’s the reason the physical separation and lots of interference reduced from my life. And violet flame meditation help me tremendously.

And I am a love fairy. I don’t do any troubles to another so what to do it is not a doll expected that she would ever improve she is the worst negative energy and also give the to my father

Any suggestions from community would be welcome and thank you in advance I have suffered a lot for so many years I am sure now my time is coming

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Merry Monday CuteLittleWitch,

I read your post some days ago and I see noone has responded. I am thinking because this is a touchy subject and people may be fearful of even using a “10-foot pole”, but I’ll jump in. To start, I feel for you greatly, because I have had a very similar situation with my “extremely” toxic mother. Just to keep it short, beat almost daily for being a half-breed, called mongoloid, (I’m in Mensa, and the 1% club, for those who know, you know)…..I could go on for days…but. What I had to finally do was cut ALL ties. I have spoken to her a few times since 2001 (because my accident put me in a coma and I almost died, so I called—MISTAKE!!) So, I just had to go “no more!” Although, I cannot get over the trauma, I thought I was, but it is so much a part of who I am, I do not think my mind will ever escape it. Sometimes, I write down how hurtful I feel and her meanness towards me and keep it in an envelope (it’s getting thicker) to help get the anger out. I won’t ever send it. I have NO social media so that she cannot find me easily. I have not done any spells, because I know she will not change, the memories will not change, my feelings of hating her will not change….so, I just have to learn to go on with my life. Sorry, an horrible example, but, like a rape victim has to move on, so do I.

So, to sum it up……You need to LET GO OF HER, just like that, a hot potatoe.:potato:

I know this is hard, but like ripping off a band-aid, the quicker the better.

Regretfully, because I know how it feels, Lady Gene :crystal_ball: :magic_wand:

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sweeety, mediations has changed my life all is miracle :slight_smile:

(I wanted to know, i was looking out for options, just got this web in mind, saw just an email from this.

loggged in just, saw this reply, omg……….my q is abt this ..see, i am v powerful manifestor and intuitor)

parents shifted new home, made new stories with their clean img to those and relatives. i dont react, they feel all is normal. i got suddenyl a neighbor aunty , i FEEEEL she knows. she knows toxicity of my mom, cz her friend aunty told me once clearly. its kinda our gorup. but i cant openly go join them, not needed either cz i am at my place and good with all.

secretly :slight_smile::slight_smile:

ok……..so, this si stirring up old pattern in me.I feel should i tell other relatives or those ppl abt parents 2 faces and not being human-with me?

i did violet flame meditaitons, never gona stop :slight_smile: work with AA Michael, kali ma etc etc powerful gods. so, i am able to creeate my life (As of now secret but yes, out of trauma, alert, out of fear, happy, love, creating exapnding my love-full of life) ..they can’t trouble me. they are not changed as human, but energetically and physically this manifested :slight_smile:

so, my Q to our community is when i am now powerful , getting confidence after talking to good aunty. (i wasnt talkign to anyone for 4yrs for sure!, beacme spiritually powerful indeed) should we reveal their bad side?

once I think, if ppl leave them they will again come back to me, so its ok. let them live happy at safe distance from me for my protection

& dear lady gene,

dont write negative, you know scripting ?

write negative but burn it all and say, i release and banish from my life forever

increase ur psyhic protection, do love meditations, work on your boundries.be love only

negativity cant match vibes and leave you :slight_smile: psychic protection is EXTREMELY imp

I can talk to you more, if you can ping on google chat app. check my profile for e mail.

love & light

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Merry Morning Kute,

I do not write in the negative for a couple of reasons. Mainly, when I start to write in a negative tone, I can’t seem to get out of it. Then my mind will go to the “bad” places. (You know, about thinking of all the wrong done to you0. Don’t wanna go there….so why “test” it? So, I write only positive. I even wrote a banishing spell for Trump and his “homies” all in a positive language. So, with this advice, again, just cut her out of your life. Working on a spell to rid her from your life, is as bad as keeping her in your life. Why? Because you are spending time and thoughts towards her. Just that alone, gives her a type of power, because you ARE thinking about her. DROP HER :roasted_sweet_potato: You have already wasted enough time!! I do not do social media. This forum is the closest I get. Like I said earlier, because I do not want her to find me.

Lady Gene :magic_wand: :+1:

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Sweetie, Its about my dad getting troubled and family dynamics.

I am not mad working at spell.

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Merry Morning Kute,

Ahhhh, so sorry,:confused: did not quite understand the post then. I will have to think on it. My mind was so about the other idea. I have to rethink this.
Have a great week. Lady Gene :magic_wand:

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Probably makes two of us

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