Yall, im a girl for starters… but all of my friends are GuYeS (exept 2 class friends, and 2 toms like me)… i just vibe better with boys… ever since 5th grade they have raised me into their boyish ways and all my preppy friends un friended me cuz i was “too boyish” and ive come to realize now that im 14-18 years old(not telling)… when im hanging with the all the bros in the public(12 peeps including me)its kinda starting to look like im a hoe or in a harem …( we get looks ) ( and if im hanging with them in my dorm my roommate would think im a whoreeeeeeeee
and the way the boys see me is just one of them
i keep thinkin to myself what my choises are but im so confuzzled:
bEcOmE a GuY(and have disappointed parents)
Get a girlfriend within the friend group so i dont look like a hoe ( and have disappointed parents)
You do not need to worry about what other people think. You will NEVER be able to think for anyone, nor need to worry about their opinions. ITS YOUR LIFE!
You need to decide for yourself how you are and want to be. Then live YOUR life; not anyone elses!!!
Ivy, I get you 100%. I had almost the exact experience as a bisexual tomboy in high school. You can’t appeal to everyone, you just can’t. Trying will only give you even worse problems. Trust me.
You have to learn to not give a crap and take license to live your life and ignore all their noise. Did I get ALL the approval and ALL the friends by choosing to be true to myself? Nooo… but at least I was happy! Social stereotypes are cages that only distort our views of ourselves. There’s so much more nuance to our human lives than “labels” can ever describe.
You will learn who your real friends are along the way too.
Don’t be scared to reach out to those that will listen and not judge you when you feel the pressure of what others do or say.
It is important to know that you are not alone and that the other people have the issues, not you.
I’m a girl(or should i say young woman now?), was not accepted by boys nor girls when i was at your age, girls think i’m not "girly“ and boys laugh at me and said i’m a nerd. I just played on my own or with a few close friends when others played with their group.
i just keep a “去他的吧！” attitude, after all, it’s always the best to be yourself instead of fitting into social stereotypes.
(exept 2 class friends, and 2 toms like me)… i just vibe better with boys… ever since 5th grade they have raised me into their boyish ways and all my preppy friends un friended me cuz i was “too boyish”
…( we get looks 
) ( and if im hanging with them in my dorm my roommate would think im a whoreeeeeeeee 
