Is it a spirit or something else?

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Hello everyone! Sorry it has been a while. Lots of things going on. I hope everyone enjoyed the holidays!

I’ve come to ask you all for your opinion.

I have a weird situation…

I had a friend pass away on Monday. They took him off of life support. I found out about the accident on Friday. They had been searching for my husband and I since the first.

We hadn’t spoken in a couple of years, but in the weeks leading up to his death, he was always on my mind. I have experienced this in the past and it usually just means that who I am excessively thinking about is experiencing some troublesome times.

This time has been different. I had a similar experience with a former client a month before - and found out that she had passed away. Since my friend’s passing, I feel like he’s around a lot. I also think they are showing me how he truly felt about me when he were here. I just don’t know if that’s my inner voice willing it to be true, or if it is him.

I hope it is him. My husband told him that he wanted him to haunt us. I speak to this entity and I have told him how I feel. I haven’t really gotten the hang of speaking with the other side. I usually have issues figuring out what I am interacting with, but I am in a moment of transition. I know I am gaining new gifts. This is one of them, I would just like some insight.

Thanks and blessed be!

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Very well might be. I’ve recently seen (but not talked with) a shade of a childhood classmate I could not even remember the name of. In the Dream World. Speaking with the other side, is a lot easier and safer with a Familiar. Just saying, don’t know your Path, JMHO.

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About the best I could offer is some pendulum work to communicate with the entity. You can use a pendulum for yes and no answers that could help determine a few things to begin with and then work on more advanced ways.

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Merry Morning Arroyn,

Actually, I have experience in both cases. This will be long, just to let the reader know. I have always had “deja-vu’s”. They will become more frequent and intense before a traumatic event in my life. Although these “premonitions” do not give any clue about what. The last time was 2 years ago. I started having insignificant deja vu’s. The coffee when I drink and see the dog….wait, I dreamt this…..or walking down the hallway and picking something up…wait, I’ve done this already….and so on. In January of 2024, it happened in the morning with my son, and I mentioned it to him, telling him that I had been having deja vu’s since November and they just keep getting more frequent. Well, March, my daughter calls, she had a stroke on Christmas and was now hospitalized with stage 4 cancer. So, that was my deja vu, and the trauma was my daughter, because I watched her die for the next 5 weeks. Don’t worry about condolences, thank-you all, I am working through it, (hey, I’m not even crying as I’m typing this). So that is my “deja-vu’s” with death experience. My mother also had a “dream” that her father sat on her bed, here in Vegas. That morning, she received the call that he had died (1971, yep, I remember).

As for your spirit (s). I have one that has been with me at least 40 years. He’s just a prankster. I speak to him occasionally, I named him “Steven”. Couple years ago, I went to sleep, woke up in the middle of the night, because I did not feel my wedding ring on. I get up, turn on lights, look EVERYWHERE in the bedroom/ bathroom/ kitchen/computer desk…NOWHERE. So, when the house is to myself, I berated Steven, I went around the house, telling him, “I know you hide stuff sometimes and that’s okay, but my wedding ring, this is over the line. I want it back!! and DONT TAKE IT AGAIN!! Lo, and behold, my husband found it wrapped up in his socks in his drawer later that afternoon. Wow!! I do not necessarily think you “need” anything. Just talk to your spirit.

Sorry this was so long, Hope it helps you out. nothing to be afraid of. Lady Gene :magic_wand: :crystal_ball: :ghost:

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I also have deja vu…I usually dream about it first. I usually have it for a while, just before something changes in my life.

I have been talking to him. He has been showing me stuff. I just miss him a lot. I wanted to ask some questions because discerning the spirits is not my gift. So I never know if I am about to have an Exercist moment.

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I’ll have to try that. I am new to using a pendulum…but I will try it!

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I love pendulum work and have a variety of them. I would suggest finding one that you feel drawn to, or is made of a stone/crystal that has the properties you want to work with.

Having said that, I have a brass one too, and love how reactive it is.

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Merry Afternoon Arroyn,

I re-read your post and realized that “haunt” did not sound true to me. Haunt always has bad connotations associated with that word. Maybe what your husband meant was for him to stay in contact with y’all. In which case, nothing to be afraid of, he likes your company, and wants to spend time with you. It all sounds good, to me.:wink:

Lady Gene :magic_wand:

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If that pendulum bit gets a bit tedious, explore Automatic Writing.

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Thanks! I’ll give it a try! I have a pendulum that I can wear as a bracelet…and I have been working with it some.. I’ll keep it up.

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What is that Sedim? I’ve never heard of it but it sounds interesting.

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Arroyn,

I too have had similar experiences as long as I can remember. I’m no longer afraid of them. I agree with the group responses . . go with it.

We bought our home from as estate sales and I strongly feel the presence of Barbara - the older lady who owned the house. I don’t know if she died in the home but her warm spirit remains. I found her kitchen curtains dirty and balled up in a cvorner of the garage. I washed them, pressed them and hung them back up as they were the exact pattern my Nana had in her kitchen. I think it makes Barbara happy and I talk to her all the time.

Can anyone give ideas as to how I can develop this gift? I have no idea how to tap into it even after all these years.

Thanks and good vibes to you all x

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Merry Meet Bermy,

I talk to my spirit, when I feel like it. Usually when I feel an unusual presence. Like last night/this morning. I have been “hearing” all sorts of strange things. Weird noises in the bedroom last night that sounded like something mechanical was straining. This morning as my son was speaking to me, I actually heard the sound of the clock ticking, that was louder in my ear, than his voice. He asked me why I was looking weird and I just blew it off. Then about 30 min. later my son and I hear something fall down in the kitchen not 10 feet from us both. We both go to look and nothing. That is when I told him about the noises today, and I thought “steven” was probably in the house again. He is only a trickster spirit, and I did not feel any harm. That is why I think it is him. My son is a little more sensitive to the psychic world than my husband. I do not know how you “develop this gift”. So, I suggest, just start talking to her. You already cleaned, pressed and rehung the curtains. Just stand by them and quietly talk to her. It may take a few times, but you will probably get a “feeling” when she is ready to be “seen”.:smiley: :ghost:

Lady Gene :magic_wand:

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Think of automatic writing as a form of Journaling, done while in a trance or channeling.

I use cheap spiral notebooks, lots and lots of them…

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I’ve never heard of it but I love it. I’ll try it. Thanks for sharing Sedim :slight_smile:

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Good luck! It’s a bit harder in the beginning than pendulums but it can move a whole lot faster,

but I’d still think pendulums faster than spirit boards. Try different things, see what works best for you.

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Thank you Lady Gene. Maybe the noises are a new year thing. Since I deep cleaned and saged my house for the new year I’ve heared noises too but only at night. Unusually creaking, noises like something dropping and low voices talking in my daughter’s room. I’ve heard those low talking voices ever since we’ve been in the house though. I hear them in my bathroom on the other side of the wall to my daughter’s room. Nothing malevolent so I just go with the flow.

Do you think the noises we hear could be a new year thing or we shook some engergy loose from cleaning or sage? I appreciate your guidance.

Blessed be Lady-Gene x (sorry but I have a British background and every Brit lady I know puts a little x kiss as a sign off in a text or email. I only mean good vibes)

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Merry Monday to you Bermy,

Only you will know if it is bad. From what you are telling me, the answer would be no. Maybe just try to talk to them. It may be a New Year thing. It may be that you shook energy loose. But neither of those have to be malevolent. Like you said, at this point “I just go with the flow”….sounds like a good idea.
Lady Gene–:ghost: :magic_wand: x