Greetings Chisme,
I suggest looking into resources online and in literature on activating the Divine Masculine/Divine Feminine. We all carry both genders within us energetically, and there are ways you can learn to tap into your own energy to enhance it.
Spell jars are one way of going about it, but there are many others. Distilled down to it’s absolute beginning elements - you want to tap into strong male archetypes, such as those depicted from the Tarot, and objects that depict the masculine elementals and symbols - fire and air, and the wand and sword. If you want to approach it from a traditional perspective, that should get you started.
Cheers, and welcome! 