HI, is this subject taboo? I ask because I have had this taught to me by by Grandmother who was a Sephardic Gypsy Jew. (no we have nothing to do with Israel). She taught me what she called a Gypsy Curse that turns back onto the person whatever they are wishing you. So my question is this’ is there a Spell or Hex that turns a persons nastiness back onto themselves?
Or is this a big no no
Well, this is strange. I was a Sephardic Jew Ger for 40 years, and I’ve always
been taught that Romani HATE Jews completely with their whole hearts.
I’ve never been of the opinion that Hexes and Curses are even needed,
and are likely to cause more problems. Better to just defend and make
a Shield. Passive defense, that Hate can crash upon, and not overcome.
If it rebounds that’s not our problem, Hate is not our intent or response.
To Romani I have no animosity, I think they are actually a ‘lost’ tribe.
Now, I have my own issues with Jews, as my Egyptian Jewish wife has
divorced me, because I am now a Witch. So I am of a neutral stance.
(yes, TMI, but I was triggered)
Welcome back Drew,
Witchcraft and the occult is full of people who want to bend the rules so it’s more a matter of the morality of the person than if something is “taboo". Yes there are spells that exist for both purposes. The question is - is it wise to perform them?
I am personally against hexing anyone, for any reason. There’s going to be extraordinarily bad karma waiting for you if your spell succeeds - and even attempts to circumvent said karma will inevitably fail. Karma isn’t like a “god” you can hide from. It’s physics. Hard to fight against, impossible to win. This is a key thing to understand, yet a lot of people don’t get it.
Reflective magick is enormously difficult to perform safely, and by itself can become extremely risky. Which is why I still advise against it. I will explain why:
Intent is the problem. If your mindset is 100% on self-defense and not the desire to hurt your attacker, in theory you should be safe. However, if there is even an ounce of revenge behind your action from the moment you make the decision, to the moments after the spell’s completion, you will get karmic whiplash. Some of that person’s hex may break through, or the karma will come back to you in some other way.
There’s also the possibility that your attacker also has a reflection spell ready. Maybe they know you’re a witch too and set it up as a “counter-defense.” What do you do in that situation? Hope that your mirror is better? What if you forgot to set up a shield just in case? What if your shield wasn’t strong enough when the hex rebounded again, now stronger? That’s when it becomes a truly dangerous situation. I’ve heard horror stories, and no it’s not hyperbolic. They do happen.
My advice is to take your own safety into consideration.
Inevitably someone here will disagree, but whatever. My conscience is clean. Like Sedim points out, there are many ways you can defend yourself without intentionally bringing someone to harm. Shielding is a good, simple way. That’s what I would recommend for beginners.
Apologies for the length. Karma is a matter I’ve been studying deeply and though I know it wasn’t your intent, this question bothered me. Cheers. 
thanks for that, to clarify the person is the ex of my Neice who he did some pretty bad things to, including burning her with hot objects. I won’t go in to too much depth, suffice to say, yes I do have ill will toward him, but i’m not going to risk what you have described to get back at him. What I want is for Karma to let him receive or get some of his own treatment. He has come back and was seen by a neighbour stalking outside her house, when he moved in he refused to sign a pre-nup saying he’d never hurt her ot take advantage of her, lets face it she was pretty weak and in my opinion both stupid and naaive, that being said, she did not deserve him taking half of the value of her house when he left. He was narcissistic and controlling their entire relationship and she ended up in Hospital. So yes I don’t like him and I do hope that he gets whats coming to him. so without hexing him, what can I do on her behalf to make sure that he never comes back. He doesn’t know anything about wicca and has no idea that I do. He always looked down on everyone else thinking that he was the smartest person in any room. So is there something that I can do for her to make certain that he will never come back.
You’re welcome! In your situation there are a few things I would do…
First I would get a restraining order. She also should learn self-defense and start carrying around pepper spray.
Second, set up an alarm system on her house. Set up hidden cameras even, check the footage and keep a log of whenever he comes around. Report any suspicious behavior. You could set up home-protection spells too. Some wording you can use in protection spells can include phrases like “may no ill-intent pass into this space,” “may no-one enter who wishes her harm,” and such.
Third, this is where you can trust that karmic physics are in your favor. There are “karmic balancing” spells that can effectively speed up the process, but you still have to be careful. They’re not as dangerous as reflection spells, but they still have the same issue with intent. Even if you’re just gently putting your foot on the gas, you still become a participant so you need a clear head when you do it. (I totally understand your feelings on him btw, yikes!)
Finally, another option is calling on a deity of justice to place judgement and balance the scales for you, like Forseti or Maat. A deity that’s a protector of women would be suitable too, like Athena, Tara or Freyja. If she likes the idea, you could also ask them to bless a protective amulet for her to wear. That would be very powerful. If you want quick results - this is what I would do. Be mentally ready if you call upon Tara. Ideally your daughter would say her mantra. She moves lightning fast.
Hope your daughter stays safe. Cheers.