Welcome Jackie,
I had a very strong feeling that this is what you meant. People get envious when they see someone with a natural gift, and use it as reason to treat you badly.
I can relate to your other stories. Nothing you have said makes me think that what you are describing isn’t real. It’s a little scary, but I know it all too well, as someone who’s also had to live with their “gifts.”
It sounds counterintuitive, but having the gift requires much more work. Things won’t be so casual or easy as you might think. Understanding the metaphysical and supernatural sciences is a big deal. Learning grounding techniques (and doing them frequently) and learning to control your mind is also very important. You can do this by either finding a mentor, or by self-training…
I suggest reading into self-protection measures - for you and your home. It’s not just people who will notice your energy - spirits will be attracted to you as well, and it’s vital that you protect yourself.
A while ago, I wrote a self-protection spell that I highly recommend you incorporate into your daily routine: https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/shield-of-protection-ritual/1987
That should get you started. Cheers.
(Edited to make it shorter… lol)