Thanks! It’s very hard to condense all the things I know, so I worry that my answers are going to turn into lectures lol. That’s good to hear.
I had a feeling (
) that you had similar ability too, when I read your experience with your familiar a while back.
I have no idea if your neurodivergence would affect your ability. It’s possible it might. If you want to test yourself, I wrote a mini-guide here: https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/could-this-have-been-a-haunted-object/2086/10
(It’s the 2nd method.) I also made some comments in the replies after that you might find interesting.
Regardless, it brings me joy to be around people who understand that kind of experience. 
Cheers. 