I still cant believe that even at 41 years old, you can start all over again. Im living life on my own terms now. I thought being single and leaving a toxic relationship would be the best thing. And it is…but I also dislike feeling lonely. I hate the feeling of not being loved or in love with someone. So, of course the first thing I did, was enter the dating scene. I had high hopes. But things have defeintely changed since I was dating. 20 years ago. Seems like guys now a days only want sex, or situationships. Its harsh to realize this on your own through trial and error. My heart has taken the abuse and it is turning me into a heartless soul, which is opposite of who I am. It became obvious this pattern is on repeat, making me very suspicous as to investigating if this is caused intentionally by black magic/curse/spell. So far, 2 different pyshcis have told me that I have a dark energy attachd to me. One even said I am cursed from a jealous sister in a past life. A generational curse. And to break this curse, will be very very difficult to remove. I am desperate need to seek help, And I feel its hard to trust anyone to lift the curse. One lady asked me for $10,000. So I want to learn witchcraft so I can take matters into my own hands…
Merry Morning IceWitch,
At the end you mentioned the $10K…I was gonna say, “it sounds like the psychic wishes to ‘cure’ you” and I guess that was right. I cannot offer any advice about the dating scene and such (I am on my second marriage…doing well, but I do not mind being solitary….so, I do not know what to say) As for “generational” and or spirit attachments….there I have experience. Dealing with a generational curse right now…..at least 3 generations that I know of so far….but just working on it…can’t really help, but I feel ya…..I suggest shadow work…I have also worked with Lilith and Kali in trying to locate and/or get rid of, the curse/problem/issue. Sounds like you are having a trying time, but you have your head about you. The last couple months seem to have been trying for many people. Chalk it up to that, and “keep plugging along” We are all here for you 
Merry Part and a happy weekend and Joyous Yule, Lady Gene 
Merry Meet Icewitch,
There are many spells, charms, and rituals for dealing with curses, and the most powerful ones are the ones you create. You can ask for help drafting one, but it should be in your own words with your own energy put in it. My advice is not to pay for it.
The most powerful spells for dealing with matters of the heart involve forgiveness. Whether it is for me or directed toward external situations or people, when I fail to forgive, I lock those thoughts and feelings away inside myself. They are negative energy and will have adverse effects on virtually every aspect of my life. It’s like they are in prison - a prison that I must by default maintain. I have to visit regularly, feed them, keep them alive. The moment I forgive, they are gone and I am free.
I admit that it took me so long to let go of some things that it wasn’t until I had forgiven and let go that it became so glaringly obvious just how much time and energy I had wasted. It was a self-inflicted curse.
Dark energy only has as much control over you as you allow it to have. Replace it with positive energy.
Brightest Blessings!
IceWitch,
I like to say from the age of 42, I have a from this day forward. I finally had the right people, at the right place, at the right time.
I had been plagued with loneliness. I was in the Navy at the time, and separated from my children for the first time, and it about killed me. Literally.
I learned to embrace the pain…that is love and it’s the tension on the invisible string of love attached to our hearts.
I learned to appreciate my time alone and it was no longer depressed isolation, but solitude.
I stopped worrying about what other people think. Refused to keep toxic people in my life just to have someone in my life. I now measure my self-worth with my yardstick.
And I submerse myself into knowledge of so many things, it is next to impossible for me to make a list.
I suggest you smudge your place where you live and then also smudge yourself. If you do not have the supplies, you of course can get them. You can do it with just the smudge bundle or stick. I like to use an abalone shell to hold the smudge and painted (Fake) “eagle” feather to help direct the smoke where I need it to go; of course you can just use your hand or even make a homemade fan. (Non Native Americans are not supposed to use real eagle feathers.) AND it is way less than $10K…
I wish you well.
Bruja