As of late, Lady Lilith has been all around in my head. I hear her name in my head so often yet she isnt the only one, Lady Hekate has also been ringing in my head with moths I see so often around my space.
Im not sure what to make of this as I’ve also just started spellwork. Its also when my life has been uprooted? All in all, I need help and advice. I have spoken to Lady Lilith personally through tarot but I could never be too sure if it is her?
Merry Meet Firefox,
It sounds as if both of them may be calling to you. I worked with Lilith for a while, but never Hecate. It sounds like you may already have a connection through the tarot. That sounds amazing!!
My suggestion would be to include the lady/ies in your oblations/circles (what ever it is you do, your choice) and just try to roll with it from there. I do not have any specifics to guide you. I did use Lilith with my Moon oblations, however and it went well. I only used her at it seemed fitting and then went back to who I was using previously. I tend to change who I work with, but stick with a main selection. I hope that helped you to come to a conclusion.
Merry Part and Good Luck, Lady Gene 
May the winds guide you Lady Gene,
Thank you for your response, if I may ask, whats an oblation? Or circle. I know of salt circle but even then I have not done something like this before. Perhaps if you could guide me that would be much appreciated.
As much as I like to think both are calling to me, I can only hope its not another one of Loki’s tricks. So I’d like to know if theres any other way I can verify that it is indeed the two well revered ladies.
Merry Meet Firefox,
I am sorry that I do not understand technology well enough to answer privately, however, here goes. An oblation, is technically, an offering made to a god/dess; however, I use it as a general term for my morning and evening “prayer”/ritual, what-have-you. The “circle” would be like your salt circle that you know of. Yes, you can still make it of salt, I have on days where I feel I will need extra protection in my circle. “Circle” is “casting a circle”. Your sacred space to protect you as you perform your oblation/rite. There are many ways in which you are able to cast. Any One, is not Right nor Wrong, they are all different. Some people like elaborate ceremony and others like it simple. (I prefer simple because I figure our fellow coveners of the past did not have all the little “doo-dads” for their ceremonies, so I do not go in for the big productions. I am a solitary, also, so I just keep it simple.) If you do not have a book yet to help you out, you can look up simple “casting a circle” online to help you out. I hear you about Loki. I have a “Loki” of my own that has been with me over 4 decades. But, he is just a Loki, only a trickster but not a liar, just harmless stuff. I decided to name him Steve. Anyway, getting a little off-track here. Only You will be able to know/tell/understand who you are working with. Yes, it will take a little time, but eventually you will figure it out. I hope someone can give you better answers. I hope this helps out a little. It is early morning, and now, I must do my morning oblations.
Merry Part and have a great week. Lady Gene