# Im new here! Would love some recommendations **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions\ **Created:** [February 19, 2026, 3:58pm UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/im-new-here-would-love-some-recommendations/2678 "2026-02-19T15:58:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![lostinthewind](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/fbc32d/32.png) [@lostinthewind](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/lostinthewind)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2026, 3:58pm UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/im-new-here-would-love-some-recommendations/2678/1 "2026-02-19T15:58:11Z")
Hi everyone! My name is Maria and i joined today. I¨ve been really interested in Wicca this past months and im looking forward to learn more about it.I had my first holiday in february 1 (lammas) since i live in the south hemisphyre. I´ve always felt very drawed in to Aphrodite (this may sound silly) and i would love to know some ways of connecting with her. And also to make some friends here! ---
**Author:** ![Sedim\_Haba](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex003/user_avatar/forum.pagangrimoire.com/sedim_haba/32/845_2.png) [@Sedim\_Haba](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/Sedim_Haba)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2026, 4:19pm UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/im-new-here-would-love-some-recommendations/2678/2 "2026-02-19T16:19:36Z")
Welcome to the forum! Nothing silly about the goddess you’re drawn to. (mine takes the cake, lol) ---
**Author:** ![Red\_Fox](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex003/user_avatar/forum.pagangrimoire.com/red_fox/32/833_2.png) [@Red\_Fox](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/Red_Fox)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2026, 7:56pm UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/im-new-here-would-love-some-recommendations/2678/3 "2026-02-19T19:56:19Z")
Merry meet! Good to see other southern hemisphere practitioners here. ---
**Author:** ![lostinthewind](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/fbc32d/32.png) [@lostinthewind](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/lostinthewind)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2026, 10:01pm UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/im-new-here-would-love-some-recommendations/2678/4 "2026-02-19T22:01:34Z")
Thanks! Can i ask wich one is yours?(sorry if its private) ---
**Author:** ![Sedim\_Haba](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex003/user_avatar/forum.pagangrimoire.com/sedim_haba/32/845_2.png) [@Sedim\_Haba](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/Sedim_Haba)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2026, 10:41pm UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/im-new-here-would-love-some-recommendations/2678/5 "2026-02-19T22:41:44Z")
Sorry, I’m not permitted by my Familiar to go into detail about my God & Goddess. Or details about Her either, other than appearance, that I’ve already shared. It’s not me, she feels cautious after the way we were treated on another forum. I have no choice in this, I’m under a Geas. ---
**Author:** ![Red\_Fox](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex003/user_avatar/forum.pagangrimoire.com/red_fox/32/833_2.png) [@Red\_Fox](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/Red_Fox)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2026, 10:51pm UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/im-new-here-would-love-some-recommendations/2678/6 "2026-02-19T22:51:43Z")
> [@lostinthewind](#): > > I´ve always felt very drawed in to Aphrodite (this may sound silly) and i would love to know some ways of connecting with her. I don’t have any personal tips, as I include others in my path, but a quick intermaweb search will turn up plenty if suggestions for connecing with Aphrodite. Inalways suggest finding at least three different sources and question everything you read: be comfortable with any of your practices. ---
**Author:** ![lostinthewind](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/fbc32d/32.png) [@lostinthewind](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/lostinthewind)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2026, 3:45pm UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/im-new-here-would-love-some-recommendations/2678/7 "2026-02-20T15:45:58Z")
Thank you so much! this was very usefull, i’ve been doing some research and i find this topic truly fascinating. I will be reporting my progress soon!🙂 ---
**Author:** ![lostinthewind](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/fbc32d/32.png) [@lostinthewind](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/lostinthewind)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2026, 3:49pm UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/im-new-here-would-love-some-recommendations/2678/8 "2026-02-20T15:49:57Z")
Oh no worries! I totally get it. I’ll be studying this topic more, especially my goddess. If you have any advice, I’d be more than happy to receive it! Thanks for replying 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![marcus](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex003/user_avatar/forum.pagangrimoire.com/marcus/32/944_2.png) [@marcus](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/marcus)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2026, 4:28pm UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/im-new-here-would-love-some-recommendations/2678/9 "2026-02-21T16:28:41Z")
Merry Meet I’m not sure it’s any help, but I work with deity from different pantheons, depending on what I’m doing or just who I feel drawn to at the moment. The way I have chosen all my deity is first to feel somehow drawn to them, then to do massive research and see if I still feel drawn to them. If I do, then I ask them for their permission to approach. If I feel connected with a particular deity, I stick with them regardless of what the books say. My heart knows best. Sounds to me like you have it all together. Brightest Blessings! ---
**Author:** ![lostinthewind](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/fbc32d/32.png) [@lostinthewind](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/lostinthewind)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2026, 1:57pm UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/im-new-here-would-love-some-recommendations/2678/10 "2026-02-22T13:57:31Z")
merry meet! ⭐ I’been studying this topic and i find it insightful, i remeber being drown to this deity since i was little, now makes sense. I found a page on the internet that tells you all about her, how to build a relationship etc… but as i was getting deeper, i realized that everyones has their own methods! feeling like this just started ! blessings, l ---
**Author:** ![Sedim\_Haba](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex003/user_avatar/forum.pagangrimoire.com/sedim_haba/32/845_2.png) [@Sedim\_Haba](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/Sedim_Haba)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2026, 6:08pm UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/im-new-here-would-love-some-recommendations/2678/11 "2026-02-22T18:08:26Z")
> [@lostinthewind](#): > > I found a page on the internet that tells you all about her, how to build a relationship etc… but as i was getting deeper, i realized that everyones has their own methods! Indeed, and don’t rely on just one vision of your Goddess, just use that as a starting point to develop your own relationship. I relate to my Goddess in ways hardly anyone ever does, and I fully acknowledge that theirs is as fully true as mine. We just have a … different focus. Always remember the Story about the Blind Men and the Elephant. ---
**Author:** ![WrenTalbot](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex003/user_avatar/forum.pagangrimoire.com/wrentalbot/32/1156_2.png) [@WrenTalbot](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/WrenTalbot)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2026, 8:42pm UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/im-new-here-would-love-some-recommendations/2678/12 "2026-02-22T20:42:42Z")
> [@lostinthewind](#): > > I´ve always felt very drawed in to Aphrodite (this may sound silly) and i would love to know some ways of connecting with her. Welcome! Aphrodite is not at all a strange or uncommon choice actually - I’ve seen channels on Youtube that are entirely dedicated to Aphrodite, and they’re all gorgeous people. That’s a wonderful choice! > [@marcus](#): > > If I do, then I ask them for their permission to approach. If I feel connected with a particular deity, I stick with them regardless of what the books say. My heart knows best. Marcus my friend! I almost didn’t recognize you with the new profile pic lol! Good advice as always, I think that’s also a good approach. Another possibility is encountering a series of signs that align with a certain deity that resonates. In the modern world that also includes signs you may pick up on online and in portrayals in media. Hilariously, one of the ways I identified one of the gods who approached me in Dec. was because of a _weird_ experience I had when I saw a portrayal of them in an anime! lol… Cheers! 🪷 ---
**Author:** ![SilverSkylar](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex003/user_avatar/forum.pagangrimoire.com/silverskylar/32/948_2.png) [@SilverSkylar](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/SilverSkylar)\ **Post date:** [February 24, 2026, 4:38am UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/im-new-here-would-love-some-recommendations/2678/13 "2026-02-24T04:38:27Z")
Welcome, I to am very new to this path. Glad to meet you and look forward to growing together as we learn.