# Help, I'm way too overwhelmed

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**Created:** [September 29, 2026, 12:47am UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/help-im-way-too-overwhelmed/4320 "2026-09-29T00:47:08Z")\
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**Author:** ![Ian](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/bb73d2/32.png) [@Ian](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/Ian)\
**Post date:** [September 29, 2026, 12:47am UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/help-im-way-too-overwhelmed/4320/1 "2026-09-29T00:47:08Z")

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like the title suggests, I am a baby witch (two months ish) and I am in over my head. it feels like there is way too much to take in and I feel like I’m getting a panic attack.

Any advice is welcome and would really help.

Thanks,

Ian M.

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**Author:** ![Sedim\_Haba](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex003/user_avatar/forum.pagangrimoire.com/sedim_haba/32/845_2.png) [@Sedim\_Haba](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/Sedim_Haba)\
**Post date:** [September 29, 2026, 12:54am UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/help-im-way-too-overwhelmed/4320/2 "2026-09-29T00:54:28Z")

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Focus on beginner stuff, see what speaks to you.

Easy stuff like Candle Magic, the associated web site has tons of beginner info:

> **[A Beginner’s Guide to Witchcraft: Spells, Tools, Rituals, and Magic](https://www.pagangrimoire.com/witchcraft-for-beginners/)**
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> This beginner's guide to witchcraft will help you get started with magic. Learn the basics of spells, tools, rituals, what witchcraft is, and much more.

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**Author:** ![RedNorcal](https://yyz1.discourse-cdn.com/flex003/user_avatar/forum.pagangrimoire.com/rednorcal/32/2620_2.png) [@RedNorcal](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/RedNorcal)\
**Post date:** [September 29, 2026, 12:59am UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/help-im-way-too-overwhelmed/4320/3 "2026-09-29T00:59:40Z")

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It sounds like you’re trying to cram the whole of witch lore onto your plate and there’s just too much to absorb in one sitting. Sedim is correct. Keep it simple.

Since you currently identify with “death witch” and Samhain is your favorite sabbat, maybe start with reading about it on the [website](https://www.pagangrimoire.com/what-is-samhain-how-to-celebrate/). It’s a gentle way to start learning about sabbats and the history of Samhain.

Please also remember that being a new adherent to witch craft means that you’re not expected to be perfect, know everything, or even cast a simple spell. Follow your heart and intuition as you study. They will serve you well.

Blessed be,

~ Lisa

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**Author:** ![Lady-Gene](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/58f4c7/32.png) [@Lady-Gene](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/u/Lady-Gene)\
**Post date:** [September 29, 2026, 8:08am UTC](https://forum.pagangrimoire.com/t/help-im-way-too-overwhelmed/4320/4 "2026-09-29T08:08:13Z")

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Tantalizing Tuesday Ian,

Welcome to the pack 🐺! No reason to feel “over [your] head”. It is all good. Just start with what catches your attention. A god/dess calling to you? Crystals? Herbs? Sun, Moon? Pick something that really speaks to you and start with that. Learn how and what you wish to, there is no _jumping off point_ with the craft. However, whatever, whenever it speaks to you.

I have a tarot thread called Tarot Talks, check in there, have a look around. We have Daily Inspiration Thread which is a nice giggle to start your day. Plenty to look at and always feel comfortable to ask questions.

Lady Gene 🕯